Well, i am officially done with college as of 10 AM this morning, WHOOP! So it is on to the next chapter in our marriage. Being a student and a husband has been a challenge that took some getting used to but I have already had a glimpse into the next chapter, here i must be careful that, though i have more time to spend with my beautiful bride, i do not get lazy and waste that time just sitting and watching tv together or other non creative activities. quanity time is a desirable thing, but it is not a substitute or replacement for quality time. So in this next chapter i will get to learn how to love amanda well with an excess of free time. And i am glad that i get this time to learn how to do that for a month before i start work because then i will begin bouncing between the two extremes, while i'm in the field i will be loving her with nothing but conversation, and while im home i will have a week of "down time" and love her actively when i have an excess of time. i am thinking about this actively because this weekend i realized (with the help of my wonderful wife) that i have apparently forgotten how to be creative, and that is simply unacceptable from the guy that covered the walls of her room with post-it notes of reasons i love her. well those are my thoughts for the moment, and now i will go relish not being a student and try to rekindle that creativity.
Shalom
TJ
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